Published Articles About Organizing

My Published Articles About Organizing from Psychology Today
Articles about organizing: Why people hold onto stuff

I have written articles about organizing for various publications. Here is a sampling.

Why You Can’t Get Organized

Do you find yourself struggling to organize your things? You’re not alone.

Read my article on Dr. Mark Banschick’s blog in Psychology Today. I know it’s overwhelming. But, you can do it.

Why People Hold On To Stuff

Do you have too much stuff? We cling to things for many reasons, and it can be overwhelming. I can tell you where to start.

Read my article on Dr. Mark Banschick’s blog in Psychology Today. Organize and clear your mind.


My Published Articles from Other Sources

Articles about organizing: tips for dogs from Marcia Sloman of Under Control

Save time and energy by keeping your pets and their stuff under control.

This article was published on theexaminernews.com.


Mentions in Related Press


Making Room for the Holidays

The holidays are right around the corner again. If you’re the typical family, this means an influx of guests, whether they be family members or friends. Normally they’d stay in your extra bedroom or in the basement. But you already have guests living there—in the form of your extra stuff. While it may be tempting to tell your guests that the nearest Hampton Inn is a few blocks down the street, the other option is to clean these rooms up to make space for them.

Be Honest with Yourself

The first step in cleaning these rooms to have a heart-to-heart talk with yourself. Get brutally honest about whether you really need this stuff.

Marcia Sloman, a professional organizer in Westchester County, New York says, “The answer is complicated because there are so many different kinds of stuff and there are so many different kinds of people. No two individuals are alike.”

She goes on to suggest that some of the reasons are a lack of permission, lack of instructions, a thought that maybe they’ll need it someday, sentimentality reasons, or just a feeling of being overwhelmed and not knowing where to start.

Some people harbor deeper psychological issues that just don’t allow them to do anything with these items. But if you’re like most of us, you’ve just been collecting things that needed to go somewhere and have ended up in rooms that could accommodate them.

Start by Organizing

The first step in the process should be to sort out the excess. Organize the items you have into groups so that you can focus on each separately. Categories can include clothing, books, furniture, exercise equipment and gadgets. The rest can go into a pile of miscellaneous items. If this ends up being too big, you may need to create another category.

Sort it Out

Next, sort it again into things you want to keep and things you want to get rid of. Here’s where the honesty comes into play. The old adage of getting rid of stuff that you have used or worn in a year is a good one. It forces you to face facts, because like or not our objects have emotions tied to them. You bought that ballgown because you loved the design on it. But when is the next black-tie formal you’ll be attending? If the answer is the 12th of never, dump it. Also, identify duplicates or near-duplicates of items. For instance, how many vases do you need?

Donate, Sell or Dump

Now that you’ve determined what stays and what goes, it’s time to decide where these items end up. A lot of people think that their belongings are worth money and want to sell them on eBay or Craigslist. While this may be true, you have to factor in the time it will take you to list it, communicate with the customer, package it, take it to the post office or meet with the prospective buyer. For most things, the time spent doing this far outweighs the amount of money you’ll get from the sale. The better advice is to donate most things of value. If you have things that are broken, put them in the trash. You’ll never get around to fixing them anyway.

The Hard Part

You’re probably asking, what harder than this? The hardest part of maintaining a clutter-free room is keeping it that way. This means setting down rules for yourself and your family. One good rule is the In-Out Rule. If you bring something new into the house, you have to get rid of something else of equal size. This way you maintain a balance of things. The storage yin and yang as it were.

Next, set an annual date on the calendar as the Purge Day. No, this isn’t the day to get away with murder. This is the one day per year where you purge the extra items that you haven’t used, or that are broken or duplicative.

With the average household having 300,000 individual items, stuff seems to accumulate by itself. But using these techniques can keep your home relatively clutter-free and keep your guests coming back to stay with you for every holiday, whether you want them to or not.

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